Tribeless

Growing up as a third-generation Italian-American Protestant in the Midwest was a strange experience. I was the only son of two New Yorkers. I didn’t have any grandparents or extended family nearby until my maternal grandmother came to live with us in my teenage years. I was neurodivergent as well, diagnosed at a young age with A.D.D. when it was still called A.D.D. After I accepted Christ’s offer of salvation at the age of 14, I read the Bible independently and wrestled with the friction between what I was reading in Holy Scripture and the false doctrine of Prosperity Gospel prevalent in the church culture where I lived. I was socially awkward. I had a “funny” last name. For most of my adolescence, I struggled to find a place to fit in. I was, in short, tribeless.

My ancestry, my awkward position as a third-generation “hyphenated American,” my “editor brain” that zeroes in on errors (which sounds like a net positive until I mention that I can’t turn it off), my dislike of conflict, my understanding of the balance of Scripture (not just the parts that I like), and my geographical proximity to Prosperity Gospel and Christian Nationalism place me in a position where I wrestle with questions of when and where and how to raise my voice.

Then I recently stumbled upon an article about the largest mass lynching in the history of the United States of America. One hundred and thirty-five years ago today, 11 Italian-Americans were murdered by an angry mob in New Orleans. Reading the historical account helped me find the courage to speak up about difficult topics like xenophobia, racism, white supremacy, and Christian Nationalism (which I would argue is neither “Christian” according to the model Christ provided nor patriotic because it denies and dishonors the very principles upon which the United States of America were founded).

When the Bible says, “God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them” (Genesis 1:27, ESV) and “You shall treat the stranger who sojourns with you as the native among you, and you shall love him as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt” (Leviticus 19:34, ESV) and “After this I looked, and behold, a great multitude that no one could number, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, clothed in white robes, with palm branches in their hands, 10 and crying out with a loud voice, ‘Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb!'” (Revelation 7:9-10, ESV), I believe it. I take great encouragement from these verses, but I’m simultaneously greatly troubled to hear echoes of history in prominent and powerful voices that dehumanize and demonize any group labeled as “Other.”

Black Friday 2025 purchases

I’d been hoarding gift money for a while and two controllers I’d been eyeing for a long time were on sale for their best prices ever. I decided to finally pick up a compressed air duster and gifts for the kiddos while shopping sales, too. Not too much damage done so far? :3

ItemDeal PriceRegular PriceDiscountStore
WOLFBOX MF50 Compressed Air Duster$31.99 USD$39.99 USD20%Amazon
PlayStation DualSense Wireless Controller – White$54.99 USD$74.99 USD27%Amazon
Xbox Wireless Gaming Controller + USB-C Cable (2025) – Carbon Black$39.99 USD$64.99 USD38%Amazon
Hello Kitty Island Adventure, Nintendo Switch Game$15.00 USD$39.99 USD62%Walmart
Nintendo – amiibo – Tulin: The Legend of Zelda Series$9.99 USD$29.99 USD67%Best Buy

Mini-review of Truthear x Crinacle ZERO: RED in-ear monitors

Back in July, I bought a set of Truthear x Crinacle ZERO: RED in-ear monitors. I received them in early August and quickly discovered that none of the included ear tips were comfortable for extended wear (15 minutes or more) for me.

I ended up purchasing a pair of SpinFit W1 ear tips. First, I purchased the M size and discovered that they were slightly too large. I then ordered the MS size, learned they were an excellent fit, and returned the M size without any problems.

The ZERO: RED IEMs are much more comfortable for extended wear with the SpinFit W1 ear tips than with the ear tips included with the IEMs.

I may try my hand at a longer review at a later date, but I’ll briefly say that I love my ZERO: RED IEMs. Songs like Michael Jackson’s Thriller and Jacob Collier’s Hideaway sound fantastic and showcase the IEM’s wide soundstage spectacularly.

These IEMs are also fantastic for gaming, especially competitive first-person shooters like Overwatch where audio with excellent imaging provides and advantage.

I discovered that one’s own voice reverberates in one’s own head while wearing IEMs. That’s not a flaw in the product, but rather something to be aware of. For playing games while chatting on Discord, I still prefer my Philips SHP9500 open back headphones.

In short, I love my Truthear x Crinacle ZERO: RED in-ear monitors and highly recommend them. Preferences for ear tips vary from person to person, but if you decide to pick up a set of ZERO: RED IEMs or any other IEMs and find that the stock ear tips aren’t comfortable, I also highly recommend a set of SpinFit W1 ear tips as well.

Recommendation for entry-level audiophile headphones

I bought a pair of Philips SHP9500 headphones after extensive research in November 2022 and I still love them.

I’ve since picked up a Fosi Audio SK02–a USB digital-to-analog converter (DAC)–as well. Add in a shorter 3.5mm male-male audio cable (a 4 ft. Anker brand audio cable is perfect for my desk) and a subscription to a music streaming service that offers high-fidelity music and it makes for a wonderful listening station.

If you’re a fellow aspiring audiophile, I invite you to check out a playlist I compiled based on found articles and my own listening adventures: Soundstage and Imaging Testing

TIL there’s a Super Mario Bros. Wonder Elephant Mario plush set to debut in January 2024

In related news, I recovered my old Play-Asia account, so here’s an affiliate link to something I would actually purchase myself if December hadn’t hit our wallets so hard: Super Mario Bros. Wonder Plush

Importing this plush from Japan wouldn’t be cheap (current price is $21.99 USD and Economy shipping to the US would add another $17.90 USD) and there’s a possibility that the same or a very similar plush will be made available on the North America My Nintendo store early next year.

But this plush was just too cute not to post. :3

Recommended tweaks for iPad Air 1st gen running Chimera iOS jailbreak

AltList (required for 3DAppVersionSpoofer)

Source: https://opa334.github.io/

libhooker version 1.6.9 (required for 3DAppVersionSpoofer Settings menu preferences)

Source: https://repo.theodyssey.dev/

libCSColorPicker (required for PreferenceLoader)

Source: https://creaturecoding.com/repo/

libCSPreferences (required for PreferenceLoader)

Source: https://creaturecoding.com/repo/

PreferenceLoader version 2.2.6 (required for 3DAppVersionSpoofer Settings menu preferences)

Source: https://repo.theodyssey.dev/

3DAppVersionSpoofer version 1.1.4

Source: https://github.com/0xkuj/3DAppVersionSpoofer/tree/main/packages

NOTE: Download to device and share to Sileo to install after prerequisites are installed.

AppStore++

Source: https://cokepokes.github.io/

Filza File Manager 64-bit

Source: https://tigisoftware.com/repo/

RocketBootstrap

Source: https://repo.theodyssey.dev/

Soundcore by Anker Life P3 Noise Cancelling Earbuds at lowest price ever on Amazon

Last September, I spent more hours than I care to admit researching wireless earbuds, checking sites (mostly RTINGS.com), saving the names of a few top picks to a Google Keep note, and setting multiple price alerts using camelcamelcamel. Two months later, I discovered that the Soundcore by Anker Life P3 Noise Cancelling Earbuds were on sale for $59.99, which matched the previous lowest price ever. (I would have received a price alert email from camelcamelcamel, but I hadn’t set up the price watch correctly.)

After waffling back and forth, I bought a pair, received them a few days later, and loved them. They’re comfortable, the sound quality is great, and the noise cancelling features are fantastic. I’ve even used them with noise cancelling active and no music playing to dampen the sound at very loud events.

I’m confident that more expensive earbuds would likely have better neutral sound or would be better for working out, but I feel like the Soundcore P3 earbuds hit the sweet spot of quality and value for the money.

Why do I mention this 6 months after I bought them? Because I still love them, I still use them when working out, and they’re on sale for $59.99 again today.

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